In today’s stimulant driven world anxiety is the primary driver of libido and sexual function. Anxiety is principally driven by high cortisol hormone levels that are responsible for a lot of behavior in the modern culture, namely urgency towards orgasm, instant fulfillment/gratification and violent rough forms of sexuality. Generally there is a lack of intimacy in sexuality almost as a disinterest in the partner’s experience.

Many people believe testosterone is the source of the violence and rough forms of sexuality typically seen in the movies and news. The reality is that this form of sexuality is actually driven by high cortisol levels and anxiety. Testosterone is an androgen, and like progesterone and estrogen, its levels produce a form of sensuality that creates a more sensual interaction. Men become interested in atmosphere, lighting, music and have an easy time with longer levels of performance because they’re not in a dominant sympathetic state rushing

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